I started writing this blog post a long time ago, back when I had plans on updating it every week. Now that I AM trying to update it every week, it's time to revisit this topic.
WARNING: this one might be a bit long, but I have a lot of thoughts.
Here are a number of myths I'd like to address regarding writing.
1. Writing is a lonely business.
FALSE! Yes, the act of writing can seem lonely sometimes, when you're locked away in your little writing cave and you purposefully make it a point to shut out the outside world. That's probably for the best while you're doing the work of writing anyway. Getting rid of all your distractions will prevent you from coming up with excuses why you can't get it done.
But you're not alone. There are so many other writers out there who are doing the same thing. So just remember you're part of the whole collective of writers out there, and that collective is HUGE! And when you're not writing, that's the time you should connect with the rest of the collective, share your experiences, have some downtime with them, ask for help, etc.
I have found the writing community to be awesome for my own sanity as a writer, to know there are others out there who are experiencing some of the same frustrations, fears, and (occasionally) triumphs as you are.
2. No one can help you on your journey.
FALSE! See Myth #1. The writing community at large is very generous overall when it comes to helping out other writers, especially fledgling ones.
But other writers are not the only place you can go for help. There are many writing professionals who are always offering their advice and expertise on the mechanics of writing, what's trending, what they're interested in or seeking (great to know when you want to submit your writing), editing services, and workshops where you can work on your creations. They hang out on social media and post little nuggets of info. They also offer private services and present at writing conferences. Not all these options are free, but some of them are. Take advantage of whatever your budget allows.
3. No one can help you except professionals.
FALSE! Sure, professionals are called professionals for a reason. They have lots of expertise and experience behind them that's extremely valuable, and they're in the publishing business, so they have an insight that writers don't necessarily have.
But you can also learn a lot from everyday people. Some of these people may be writers like you. Some may work in other industries. Some may be your loved ones and friends, while others are complete strangers. There are always opportunities to learn from anyone and everyone.
Writers will always tell you that ideas are everywhere, and I believe that's true. You just have to be open to receiving them, no matter where they are. And never be afraid to ask anyone for help.
4. The publishing industry is against you.
FALSE! I hear this one a lot, usually from writers who have self-published or are interested in self-publishing. They say that publishers are the gatekeepers preventing them from getting their work out there. I don't want to turn this into a self-publishing vs. traditional publishing topic, because it's not meant to be. Both options have their pros and cons, both are equally viable options, and only you as a writer know which is better for you personally.
But I personally don't feel that traditional publishers are out to get you. Publishers, agents, and anyone else who is in the business of selecting people's work to represent are people just like you and me. Which means they have personal interests that are varied. Your work of art might not be anything that a particular publisher connects with. Another one, however, might feel your story is the best thing they've ever read. The challenge is to avoid the former and seek out the latter.
How do you do this? Research. Lots and lots of research. Fortunately, as I've stated in Myth #2, publishing professionals are very active on social media and attend workshops and events where they offer up what they're interested in and what they're seeking.
Also, you do have to remember that publishing is a business, and publishers and other professionals are ultimately going to gravitate toward what they think will sell and that the public at large are interested in.
I will say this. Regardless of what the current "trends" are, if you've written to the best of your ability and poured your heart and soul into what you've written, someone will take notice, and you could wind up being the next '"trend".
5. You're a fraud because you don't have any experience in writing or what you're writing about.
FALSE! Not having any experience in writing or even a particular writing topic does not automatically make you a fraud.
Let's address the first issue first: not having any writing experience. At first glance, this whole writing thing is one of those catch-22s, isn't it? You need experience to be a writer, but you don't have any and can't get any until you've had experience being a writer. This is faulty thinking. You DON'T need experience to start writing. Just do it! So you don't know the mechanics of writing. Maybe you make grammatical or spelling errors. Maybe you need help with how to plot a novel, or how to make believable characters, or how to writing engaging dialogue. There are plenty of places to learn. Take courses. Take advantage of whatever free resources are available to you. And practice, practice, practice! And, as I said in Myths #2 and #3, don't be afraid to ask people for help.
Now for the second issue, which is a big one these days: what if you don't know about what you're writing about? Especially with today's focus on own voices and unrepresented or underrepresented writers (which I FULLY believe is something that the industry as a whole needs to work on), are you in danger of being out of your league or, even worse, offending someone through misrepresentation with what you're writing about? Maybe. It's something you really need to think about. Personally, I feel you can write about anything if you're coming at it from a place of sincerity.
However, your best bet is to pull from your own experiences, feelings, imagination, and point of view. That's the best way to produce something that sounds authentic. Everyone is unique and has their own stories to tell. Dig into those, and tell them in your own way.
Of course, you also want to expand your own worldview too, and your own story universe, so you might want to include topics, characters, cultures, etc. that are different than your own, which I also strongly encourage. When you do this, however, DO YOUR RESEARCH. Check your sources. Get multiple points of view. Reach out to others who have more knowledge of these things than you do, who may have experience in what you're trying to write about, and listen to them.
What are your thoughts about these writing myths I've addressed? What other writing myths have you heard, and what is your response to them?
Remember there are NO hard and fast rules about writing. That's what makes the profession so wonderful. You get to bust the myths and forge your own path. So get out there and do it!
